Monday, February 21, 2011

family

An ideal family

…….is something
very precious and meaningful to us which is also very close to our 
hearts, it is everyone dreams of having an ideal family, wishes to live 
and experience a meaning life in an ideal family. However, is our family
an ideal family? Do we have the qualities of an ideal family? If we 
do,it is amazing and we have to maintain it, if we don’t meet those characteristic of a ideal family, then we should strive to have one. How
do we categorize an ideal family? Is it by the wealth we have or the 
large number of family members? I strongly believe that an ideal family 
is a religious home blessed with love, happiness and serenity, it’s a 
home embroidered with responsibility and empathy, furnished with 
honesty, loyalty and trustworthiness. It’s a home that creates a 
blissful atmosphere within the family circles and overflowing to the 
community around.Why do we need to build an ideal family?All of us believe in lasting relationship, a true relationship is not built for a reason, a season but for a lifetime. In an ideal family , we built lasting relationship to help each other for extrinsic motivation.
When our relationship is lasting it will be secure and we have rooms to
create happiness when we are committed in our relationship. A part from
that, we can arouse tranquility in our homes if we love and respect 
each family member.How do we build an ideal family?Is it by making more money, buying more properties, or expending business? Normally,
human have the desire to gain wealth for the family, but in reality the
inner wealth is more important than the external wealth. So, we must 
put more effort to gain the inner wealth that’s love. Why did I mention the word, love? It is because I believe to have a strong successful relationship is by
opening up the power of love within our hearts as love can enhance 
human energy which enables the other main components like trust, 
respect, empathy, sharing, commitment, patience to flow in holistically, inshaAllah.

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